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Sunday, 2 August 2015


Killed: For Love

Saturday; 15th Shawwal, 1436                      Bismil Laahir Rahmaanir Raheem

Assalaamu alaykum wa rahmatul Laahi wa barkaatuh brothers and sisters in Islam. A du’a appeal: Could you please tell Allah azza wa jal to bless me with sincerity from the core of my heart with every act of worship? Aameen. By requesting this from you, I have indirectly requested that the Angels pray for you; the condition being that you pray for me first. If you want to increase the du’a of the Angels upon you; then pray for everyone; known and unknown. Smile. Islam is that very beautiful. 

And this is a few days to exactly a year I tried to write this article…Time runs…take advantage of your free time before your busy time…

A Story at a Study Circle

So, a scholar tells his students a love story at a study circle.
There was an amazingly beautiful queen (keep smiling) of a great empire. One of her servants against his natural will (consider revising…kikikiii) fell helplessly in love with her.
Love gave him strength and made him blind to the fact that he was a servant and she - queen. So, he went straight to her palace to profess his love to her everyone’s amazement. The queen gave everyone the shock of their lives when she did not ask the guards to take him away and give him some beating…

What She Did

She offered him a huge amount of money and other treasures in exchange of this love. She told him;

‘I am grateful that you love me and you are bold enough to let us all know but please take this and keep off me.’

Yet, how could he do that? This was love he was talking about! Whoever said one could clean off love with money? So, he turned his back to her and left the palace. No! He was not going to accept it. He wanted her not her treasures.
So, it was that every day, he came to the palace singing his love for the queen. He kept reciting love poetry that touched the hearts of all who witnessed it. Yet, the queen did not also relent in her quest not to love him back neither to punish him but to keep offering him more and more money.
She killed Him
One day, he had come again against all odds, seeking the object of his interest – the queen. Then she had mesmerized him; she brought an enormous amount of wealth attached with privileges and she had told him gently and nicely;
‘Young man! These are all yours. Take them and forget about this love.’
Now! All that wealth and the accompanying list of privileges were better than all the love he felt. He excitedly accepted the wealth and readied himself up for a change in status from servant to something better in the Kingdom. 
He left her palace a very happy man, happier than he has ever been; all the love was totally forgotten. Now, he could have everything including many other women. But the queen had been furious and completely outraged. She would have accepted his love if he had refused this final test. She felt fooled and made a mockery of. Then she did what she thought she should have done from day one. She called her guards and ordered;
‘Get that bastard and slay him now!’
They obeyed and in some few minutes the finally happy man was history!
At the Study Circle
As the scholar said the last word above, ‘history,’ one of his students; who was the deepest ponderer amongst his students, collapsed.
In a few minutes, they were able to revive him. The scholar asked him;
‘My student! What happened?’
He replied;
‘I just thought of how our case is going to be with Allah azza wa jal during our judgment based on the reaction of the queen to a love that was untrue; my mind is unable to carry the weight of our plight on that day. A worldly love that the servant professes so truly yet easily gives away for wealth. How many times do we give up the love of Allah azza wa jal for worldly material gains? Could we even compare the might of Allah azza wa jal with that of this Queen?’
And so everyone began to cry profusely for this student had indeed extracted from the story its full lesson. His teacher was glad; his aim had been achieved.
Now, I am not going to write anymore. I will just implore you to give this story and its lesson a few minutes in your head and heart. Let it be processed! Let it settle in and let the lesson stay with you forever! And don’t forget about the du’a. May Allah azza wa jal make us among the victorious on Yawmul Qiyaama. Aameen Yaa Mujeebud da’awatud da’ee.

Love fiisabi lil laah

Wednesday, 24 December 2014


Bismillaahir Rahmaanir Raheem                                     3rd Rabi’ al-Awwal, 1436
Assalaamu alaykum wa Rahmatullaahi wa Barkaatuhu brothers and sisters. Allaahumma sualli ‘alaa sayyidinaa Muhammad, wa ‘alaa aalihi wa ashaabihi  wa sallama tasleema. Alhamdulillaah indeed fills the space. We should be grateful to Allah azza wa jal for everything, absolutely everything because indeed, just as He jalla jalaaluhu says;

‘We can never count our blessings even if we tried to.’

I have a request. Do remember a number of sisters who are going through difficulties in their lives in your du’a. They are trying so very hard to keep their hearts and thoughts inclined to Allah azza wa jal and we can only remember them in our du’a. The beautiful thing is that as you make du’a for them, the noble Angels of Allah subhaanahu wa ta’alaa also make du’a for you. Smile to Jannah!

So, today, I am not sharing my article but that of a friend and I have been waiting for this write-up for a number of weeks now. Interestingly, I am also working on this a number of weeks after receiving it. Smiles!

She is telling the story of an encounter with her youngest brother, some annoyingly acting-shy boy. I pray and hope he reads this. Smiles! 

She writes;
‘I would kill myself if I were a girl.’

‘These are disturbing words from a fourteen (14) year old boy. I remember the night I heard these words from my youngest brother, I took a step back and I knew that there was no way I could gloss over these words. I could not take this statement as one of those things a rebellious or troublesome teenager would say. This was definitely something that was a big deal to me.’

It is interesting how a little boy like that could even coin such words in his head and bring them out. He probably blurted out this after a series of thoughts about something about girls that he thinks is absolutely absurd; something he could never succeed in living with. Is it something he has been seeing his mum, sister and the women in his house or school go through? Well, she continues;

’So let me take you back to the genesis or what triggered these words from him. It was a normal evening and two of my brothers and I were in the living room. We were doing our individual things. My brothers were having their own conversation and I wasn’t paying so much attention to it. It was then that my youngest brother dropped these words;

‘’I would kill myself if I were a girl’’

This definitely caught my full attention. My first instinct was to rebuke him for what he said but my curiosity got the better hold of me. I asked him why he said those words. He replied by;

‘Lamenting all the house chores women do. He talked about women being pregnant and having to carry children for a long time. He then talked about all the sufferings women go through which he sees around him and all the restrictions they believe a woman has to endure.’

‘Interestingly, he got more points from my other brother to argue his case out.

I knew that if I argued with them, the whole thing will turn into a gender debate. After listening to them, a part of me couldn’t help but agree with some of the points they raised. It was like their concerns were in line with some of the struggles of women that I think about almost on a daily basis. I don’t really blame my brothers for having these kinds of thoughts especially since what they pointed out were things they see around them. 

Another part of me also knew that I had to do something about the kind of twisted mindset they had about women. I felt the responsibility to let them know what being a woman was really all about.

Being their elder sister and having lived with them since they were born, I knew them better and I also knew what their problem about all these women thing was. The problem they both had was that they have had women clean up their mess for them for a very long time so much so that now that they have to clean up for themselves, they are having challenges. 

Since childhood, these younger brothers of mine, have had our mom, my cousin and myself clean up just about every mess around for them; from the bowls they eat in, their dirty clothing and disorganised rooms. 

For some time now, I have had a campaign at home where I have advocated that they do things for themselves. I have advocated that they start taking responsibility at home and also start keeping the house in shape especially in the cases where they create those mess.

Well, enough about my family. I am quite sure you are wondering why I am talking about all these family drama. I believe what my younger brother voiced out is the thought or similar thinking of so many other young men. 

The question we should be asking ourselves especially as females is that; 

Are these young men to be blamed for that kind of thinking considering the fact that we share part of the blame due to the role we play in how these young men are brought up?

The society we live in has a different blueprint of how a girl and a boy are brought up in terms of the responsibility they have or are supposed have at home. 

As Muslims, we have in the Prophet Muhammad, suallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, the best of examples as Allah azza wa jal informs us in the Qur’an, Surah al-Ahzab, the Confederates, Chapter 33 ayah 21 saying;

‘Indeed in the messenger of Allah you have an excellent example

What was his contribution in terms of partaking in household responsibilities? We learn from a number of ahaadith that the Prophet Muhammad, suallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, helped a lot with household chores. 

The Prophet Muhammad, suallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, occupied himself at his home like a common man. As it is related by his wife ‘Aisha, radiyallaahu anhaa, he used to clean his clothes, milk the sheep and himself do his odd jobs. She also says that he would mend his clothes, repair his shoes and do similar other tasks.

When asked how the Prophet occupied himself at home, she replied, 

“He used to keep himself busy in household chores and went out when the time for prayer came.”

As Muslimahs, we should realise the kind of power we have in deciding how the next generation of boys would be brought up. We can decide to make them into highly responsible sons, brothers and fathers. We should start training them from childhood and instil into them a sense of responsibility so that they would not depend on women solely to clean up their mess. 

I was also very sad to realise that my brothers thought Islam restricted women in different ways. Really, as a Muslimah, I sometimes feel suffocated with all the haraam things associated with what a Muslimah is permitted to do or not. It got to a point when I could not help but feel more suffocated and I wondered whether it was wrong being a woman in Islam due to the numerous Islamic messages on whatsapp and facebook especially. 

I asked myself various questions. Among them were; 

1.      What does Islam has to offer women?
2.      Does Islam only offer so much restrictions and limitations to a woman and nothing else?

And this was due to the picture that was being painted on our social media by some of our own Muslim brothers about Islam and the woman. After reflecting and reading however, I came to this realisation; 

1.      Islam indeed has a lot to offer a woman.
2.      It offers her total submission to her Creator, Allah azza wa jal.
3.      It teaches her not to enslave herself to man and her ill desires.
4.      Islam offers such serenity of a focused life and mind.
5.      Islam offers a woman the best role model in the person of the Prophet Muhammad, suallallaahu alayhi wa sallam.
6.      Islam teaches her to strive to learn from his character and excellent manners.

And after reading an article entitled; ‘Thank God I am woman’ by Umm Zakiyyah (this is a must read article) in Sisters Magazine, I got a lot more relieved. She gave such a different perspective to how women should view issues that are presented by some of the Muslim scholars to them. 

She first highlighted on how women issues are presented to them by their male counterparts especially with issues regarding what is halal or haram for the woman. Even in cases where it is halal for a woman to do something, some scholars always put a BUT there for whatever reason. 

She then talked about how as Muslimahs, we shouldn’t let our spirits be dampened when we hear all these rulings and perceived restrictions, rather we should view them as  blessings which serve as a reminder for where our ultimate focus should be which is the worship of Allah azza wa jal. 

Anytime we, as Muslimahs, hear or read a fatwa on issues concerning women, we should see that as another reminder of the blessings Allah azza wa jal has given us so that by obeying His laws, we gain His pleasure and love.  We should never for once think that we are less of human beings.

This should serve as our motivation and the driving force in our daily lives.’

She ends…

She raised two critical issues;

1.      Women bring up their male children wrong so much so that they begin to think that a girl does the entire chores in the house.
2.      Women are constantly reminded of how insignificant they are with some fataawa by some particular ‘not-favourites-of-women’ scholars.
Now, it is up to you to think through it and ask yourself;
1.      Do you agree with her? Why or why not?
2.      What could you do in your small way to help solve these two issues if you agree?

You must note however that she has the right to her opinion just like everyone else. Our individual struggles are most at times very different due to our socialization so one person’s struggle might seem as a joke to the other yet every struggle is a struggle.

To the women who feel down with all the rulings that seem to be sending them straight to Hell for the least wrong, well, the hope is as it was stated…our main focus should be worship of Allah azza wa jal solely and so we should not distract ourselves with feeling left out or not because the real truth is…Allah azza wa jal is Al-Adl, the Just, and we believe in that Justice…we are not left out at all…keep smiling and get seriously worshipping Allah subhaanahu wa ta’aalaa.

He, jalla jalaaluhu says in Surat Al-Ahzaab, the Confederates, Chapter 33 ayah 35 that;

“Surely the men who submit and the women who submit, and the believing men and the believing women, and the obedient men and the obedient women, and the truthful men and the truthful women, and the patient men and the patient women, and the humble men and the humble women… Allah has prepared for them forgiveness and a great reward”

Now, this is sufficient for us. Alhamdulillaah for Islam. Alhamdulillaah for making us a part of His creations. Alhamdulillaah for making us women. Alhamdulillaah for absolutely everything; those we deem as good and those we deem as bad. The most important thing is that we should make sure we are trying our utmost best to serve the purpose of our creation which is ‘to worship Him, subhaanahu wa ta’aalaa.’ Remember always that I love you for the sake of Allah azza wa jal and I pray that Allah azza wa jal will grant us His Light and Shade on the D-Day. Aameen. Nastagfirullaahu wa natuubu ilayhi. Aameen.

Jazaakumullaahu khair always!
Assalaamu alaykum!
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Thursday, 4 December 2014

THE FRUIT OF THE WOMB: A Task About Which We Must Pray

Bismillaahir Rahmaanir Raheem                                   Monday, 12 Safar, 1436 AH

Assalaamu alaykum wa Rahmatullaahi wa Barkaatuhu brothers and sisters in Islam. Indeed, we praise and give thanks to the Almighty, the All-Wise, who created us and blessed us with Islam. We pray that He, subhaanahu wa ta’aalaa continue to keep us on this beauty, Islam and continue to shower us with His gift, guidance. Aameen. May Allah’s mercy and blessings be showered upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad, his household and his companions. Aameen.

In Surat al-Furqan, the Criterion, Chapter 25 ayah 74, Allah subhaanahu wa ta’aalaa tells us about one of the characteristics of those who will attain His ‘ridwaan’ ‘pleasure’ saying;

‘And those who say, "Our Lord, grant us from among our spouses and offspring comfort (coolness) to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous."

Indeed, for every religious young man or woman, what will be cooler to the eyes than to have a religious spouse who strives not to go against the rule of Allah azza wa jal and His rasuul in his or her daily life? What will be cooler for a religious father or mother than to have a child of likewise manner? The answer is clear. May Allah azza wa jal bless us with this coolness. Aameen.

So those of us Muslim men and women who aren’t married yet should make this a constant du’a because indeed, it is most important. Those who are married already should make this du’a constantly because ‘Allah is a turner of hearts’ and if their spouses or children are not as they desire them to be in terms of their religious inclination, Allah, al-Qadir, is able to turn them over to His side. We must also know that the possibility of us turning bad even if we are good is also there. May Allah azza wa jal forbid though. Aameen. 

Allah azza wa jal also says in Surah At-Tahreem, the Prohibition, Chapter 66 ayah 6 that;

‘O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones, over which are appointed Angels, harsh and severe; they do not disobey Allah in what He commands them but do what they are commanded.’

Now, this ayah should always set our minds thinking just like all the others. Allah azza wa jal is giving us a pre-warning of how it is going to be like with the Hellfire and He tells us to save ‘ourselves’ and then ‘our families’ from this danger. The question then is; 

‘How do we save ourselves and our families from this fire with this kind of fuel?’

Admonishing ourselves towards that which is right and forbidding one another from evil; and that has never been easy. Even with ourselves, we realize we are in a constant state of struggle with our stubborn ‘nafs’ ‘self-desire’ against the pleasure of Allah subhaanahu wa ta’aalaa. So whiles we deal with ourselves, we try to pull others along this beautiful and wise path with the hope of satisfying the requirement of this ayah and others like it and that definitely has not been an easy thing for an uncountable number of people. 

I know a man who wanted to marry just the best of women (well, according to his standards of measuring best, that is) and he said that; that was because he wanted to be among the men who will have a family of high standing on the Day we should all be working towards – Al-Yawmut-Tagaabun, the Day of Mutual Loss and Gain.

So, what I want to concentrate on is; the woman and her womb. Even though the choice of husband or wife a woman or man makes goes a long way to determine the result of the fruit of the womb, I would like to put that aside. As I always say and it is really so, I am more inclined to the sisters than to the brothers. 

I would however want to chip in here that a man also has great interests when it comes to the fruits of the womb. A religious man especially cares a lot about the kind of children that his wife gives birth to and what they grow into. Such men make it their business to ensure that at least they have done their best in contributing to the goodness of their children even before they choose their wives, even before their wives conceive, during their wives’ pregnancy, during the birth of their children, as their children grow and even in the adult life of these children. They contribute along the way until they finally reach their end or their children reach their end. May Allah azza wa jal make all of our Muslim men like that. Aameen.

When I fell in Love with Maryam

I am sitting in the Masjid with my personal ‘Muallimah’ ‘Muslim Female Teacher’ who is teaching me tajweed of the Qur’an. Then she tells me that I should make the recitation of Surat Maryam, Chapter 19 of the Qur’an, a habit. I can’t recall the exact reason she gave me for that. I had just completed Senior High School then. From then, I became very attached to this Surah especially the part that spoke about the mother of Prophet Issah, Maryam, alayhimas salaam.

The Maryam character amazed me. Even then, I tried to put myself in her shoes and I realized how tough the situation of her pregnancy without a male factor could have been. Yet, Allah azza wa jal took care of the situation with perfection for indeed, perfection belongs to Him only. 

Somewhere in Surat al-‘Imraan, we are told how the mother of Maryam, alayhas salaam had dedicated her to the service of Allah subhaanahu wa ta’aalaa whiles she was still in the womb. He, azza wa jal, says;

‘When the wife of 'Imraan said, "My Lord, indeed I have pledged to You what is in my womb, consecrated [for Your service], so accept this from me. Indeed, You are the Hearing, the Knowing.’

(Surat Al-‘Imraan, the Family of ‘Imraan, Chapter 3 ayah 35)

The Conversation with One of My Mentors

I am chatting with one of my mentors as usual on phone and she tells me that whiles unmarried, I should pray for the purity of the womb; that Allah azza wa jal cleanses my womb and places into it the best of His creations.

The truth is, I had always believed in praying for just about everything; things that have passed, present and future happenings. Praying for the right husband or wife at the right time and the ‘right’ children is part of these future happenings for every unmarried person.
What my mentor did to my mind however was that she re-awakened and rekindled the passion in me to pay a lot more attention to the ‘fruits of the womb.’ Whenever I see how some parents, especially the parents of the 21st Century children, struggle with their children, I get extremely worried. I keep imagining how much discomfort or do I say ‘hotness’ I would feel if ever I am tried with such a child or children.

Facts about Life

1.      You must know as a Muslim that Allah azza wa jal chooses to grant children to whomever He wills. Do not put yourself in the situation of one who thinks he or she must have a child by all means. Some give birth to a lot of children, some do not give  birth at all, some give birth to one, some give birth early and some late, and the examples abound. So, even as you pray for the ‘fruits of the womb’ and its ‘nature,’ you should also bear in mind these realities.

2.   You could work hard by being careful to choose a righteous spouse, pray hard for a religious child and then Allah azza wa jal in His infinite knowledge and wisdom decides to test you with exactly the opposite; ‘a notoriously rebellious’ child who only want to do that which you are totally against. That is definitely ‘hot’ to the eyes and heart but then we must know that after trying our best, this ‘heat’ then becomes our tests (most tests aren’t pleasant, we should know).

The Efforts We Make for a Righteous ‘Fruit’

So, we only make efforts whiles we fully ‘hope’ that Allah azza wa jal is going to crown our efforts with that which we desire of Him and ‘fearing’ also that He, subhaanahu wa ta’aalaa, could test us with the opposite of that which we desire. So in this matter of ours, we dangle between ‘fear’ and ‘hope’ of whatever Allah azza wa jal could decide to do with us with the full belief that whatever He does is good.

1.      Being Righteous Yourself 

The first thing you should do in your efforts to get a righteous fruit of the womb is to work at being righteous yourself. You strive to do that which Allah azza wa jal loves and stay clear off that which He despises as much as possible. Allah, jalla jalaaluhu, says;

‘Women impure are for men impure and men impure are for women impure; and women of purity are for men of purity and men of purity are for women of purity: these are not affected by what people say: for them there is forgiveness and a provision honourable.’

And this is only fair even though sometimes good women are tested with bad husbands such as the case of Asiya bint Muzahim, alayhas salaam and Fir’aun and good men are tested with bad wives such as the case of Prophet Nuhu and Prophet Lut, alayhimas salaam, and their wives. 

2.      Making Du’a

We all know the power of du’a. If you don’t, then you need to read about it and incline yourself to du’a. As it is said; ‘Du’a is the weapon of the believer.’ Whatever you need, want, fear, etc, tell it to Allah azza wa jal and He will definitely take care of it for you. He will take the difficulty out of your burden. To that I am a witness many times. Smile to Jannah!

3.      Choosing a Righteous Spouse

And we hope and pray that as we strive for righteousness, Allah azza wa jal will connect us with likewise people as the ayah stated above says;

‘Pure women are for pure men’

A righteous spouse complements ones effort in everything as married couples whether with or without children. There is therefore a problem when one of the couple has no interest in the pleasure of Allah. He or she then does not care what the child grows into. 

4.      Making Du’a during Pregnancy

And du’a runs through our whole life, married or not. Yet, we cannot afford to not make the du’a for the fruit of the womb specific. So, my mother will always make du’a for me, the man I marry and our children and that was exactly what my mentor taught me with passion to do as well. Every good mother does the same. We see in the story of the birth of Maryam alayhas salaam an example of a mother who was eager for a righteous child and a righteous generation as well. 

When she conceived Maryam alayhas salaam, as we read in ayah 35 of surat Al-‘Imraan, she dedicated her to the service of Allah azza wa jal even before she entered this Dunya. This is something that mothers, fathers, and yet to be mothers and fathers must learn to do. It is part of doing one’s part to ensure that the child grows up righteously, ceteris paribus (all things being equal).

5.      And Forever

The moment the child drops from the womb, the real work begins. The mother of Maryam alayhas salaam, seeing that her child was not male as she expected, she still made an extremely powerful du’a that we must all learn to do for our children, all children. Allah azza wa jal tells us in ayah 36 of Surat Al-‘Imraan that;

‘But when she delivered her, she said, "My Lord, I have delivered a female." And Allah was most knowing of what she delivered, "And the male is not like the female. And I have named her Mary, and I seek refuge for her in You and [for] her descendants from Satan, the expelled [from the mercy of Allah].’

Now, this du’a is definitely powerful. How lucky any child will be to have a mother such as Hannat, the mother of Maryam! May Allah azza wa jal make all of our mothers and yet to be mothers like this amazing woman. Aameen. Allah azza wa jal Who is the Hearer of every caller and the Answerer of all of our du’a tells us about His acceptance of her du’a in the next ayah, 37, saying;

‘So her Lord accepted her with good acceptance and caused her to grow in a good manner and put her in the care of Zechariah. Every time Zechariah entered upon her in the prayer chamber, he found with her provision. He said, "O Mary, from where is this [coming] to you?" She said, "It is from Allah. Indeed, Allah provides for whom He wills without account.’

And we all know the story of the purity, chastity and spirituality of Maryam alayhas salaam and Allah azza wa jal did bless her generation with a Prophet, Issah, alayhis salaam. Subhaanallaahi Robbil ‘Arshil ‘Azeem! Glorified is Allah, the Lord of the Mighty Throne! Alhamdulillaah for the blessing of Islam!

So du’a and the struggle to lead children unto the path of righteousness continues even after their birth until either we the parents leave this Dunya or the children leave.

The Reality I was Reminded

A man who is a da’ee (a caller unto the path of Allah) says and I quote in my words;
‘It is when you finally have a child that you begin to see the weight of responsibility as you fear for the manner in which your child will grow because the child could go either way no matter how hard you try.’

He gave a story of a man who was very learned and who taught them tafseer (commentary) of the Qur’an when they were young. The man had a notorious son who did just about everything that the man spoke against. He said that the man always looked so disturbed because of his son and whenever he remembers the man, he fears for himself and his children.

That is something we must keep pondering on and praying against because definitely, it would not be a pleasant test and though some people will not mind the outcome of the religiosity of their children, those who want to save themselves and their ‘children’ from the fire whose fuel is men and stones do care. May Allah azza wa jal change the situation of all those who are in such a case. Aameen. And with certainty, He is able to do that and more.

Another Reality that Hurts

So, we are discussing about the awesomeness of the sahaaba (the companions of rasuul), how they dedicated their every second to the work of Allah azza wa jal seeking His pleasure solely.

That was when the issue of parenting came in and one brother said he heard a scholar say, and I quote in my words;

‘What every woman of recent times must know is that she could give birth to a ‘waliy’ ‘friend’ of Allah or other great people both on the religious and secular front and she could also give birth to the worse of people but she could never give birth to a Prophet or men or women like the sahaaba.’

And indeed, this is a reality every woman, no matter how high she is aiming in the righteousness of her family should know, belief and understand. May Allah jalla jalaaluhu bless our wombs with the best of His creations and transform those of our children who have gone wayward back to the straight path. May Allah azza wa jal count us among the few of the latter years who will be among the Forerunners as He describes in Surat Al-Waqi’ah. Aameen.

Jazaakumullaahu khair always!
Assalaamu alaykum!
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