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Thursday, 4 December 2014

THE FRUIT OF THE WOMB: A Task About Which We Must Pray




Bismillaahir Rahmaanir Raheem                                   Monday, 12 Safar, 1436 AH

Assalaamu alaykum wa Rahmatullaahi wa Barkaatuhu brothers and sisters in Islam. Indeed, we praise and give thanks to the Almighty, the All-Wise, who created us and blessed us with Islam. We pray that He, subhaanahu wa ta’aalaa continue to keep us on this beauty, Islam and continue to shower us with His gift, guidance. Aameen. May Allah’s mercy and blessings be showered upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad, his household and his companions. Aameen.

In Surat al-Furqan, the Criterion, Chapter 25 ayah 74, Allah subhaanahu wa ta’aalaa tells us about one of the characteristics of those who will attain His ‘ridwaan’ ‘pleasure’ saying;

‘And those who say, "Our Lord, grant us from among our spouses and offspring comfort (coolness) to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous."

Indeed, for every religious young man or woman, what will be cooler to the eyes than to have a religious spouse who strives not to go against the rule of Allah azza wa jal and His rasuul in his or her daily life? What will be cooler for a religious father or mother than to have a child of likewise manner? The answer is clear. May Allah azza wa jal bless us with this coolness. Aameen.

So those of us Muslim men and women who aren’t married yet should make this a constant du’a because indeed, it is most important. Those who are married already should make this du’a constantly because ‘Allah is a turner of hearts’ and if their spouses or children are not as they desire them to be in terms of their religious inclination, Allah, al-Qadir, is able to turn them over to His side. We must also know that the possibility of us turning bad even if we are good is also there. May Allah azza wa jal forbid though. Aameen. 

Allah azza wa jal also says in Surah At-Tahreem, the Prohibition, Chapter 66 ayah 6 that;

‘O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones, over which are appointed Angels, harsh and severe; they do not disobey Allah in what He commands them but do what they are commanded.’

Now, this ayah should always set our minds thinking just like all the others. Allah azza wa jal is giving us a pre-warning of how it is going to be like with the Hellfire and He tells us to save ‘ourselves’ and then ‘our families’ from this danger. The question then is; 

‘How do we save ourselves and our families from this fire with this kind of fuel?’

Admonishing ourselves towards that which is right and forbidding one another from evil; and that has never been easy. Even with ourselves, we realize we are in a constant state of struggle with our stubborn ‘nafs’ ‘self-desire’ against the pleasure of Allah subhaanahu wa ta’aalaa. So whiles we deal with ourselves, we try to pull others along this beautiful and wise path with the hope of satisfying the requirement of this ayah and others like it and that definitely has not been an easy thing for an uncountable number of people. 

I know a man who wanted to marry just the best of women (well, according to his standards of measuring best, that is) and he said that; that was because he wanted to be among the men who will have a family of high standing on the Day we should all be working towards – Al-Yawmut-Tagaabun, the Day of Mutual Loss and Gain.

So, what I want to concentrate on is; the woman and her womb. Even though the choice of husband or wife a woman or man makes goes a long way to determine the result of the fruit of the womb, I would like to put that aside. As I always say and it is really so, I am more inclined to the sisters than to the brothers. 

I would however want to chip in here that a man also has great interests when it comes to the fruits of the womb. A religious man especially cares a lot about the kind of children that his wife gives birth to and what they grow into. Such men make it their business to ensure that at least they have done their best in contributing to the goodness of their children even before they choose their wives, even before their wives conceive, during their wives’ pregnancy, during the birth of their children, as their children grow and even in the adult life of these children. They contribute along the way until they finally reach their end or their children reach their end. May Allah azza wa jal make all of our Muslim men like that. Aameen.

When I fell in Love with Maryam

I am sitting in the Masjid with my personal ‘Muallimah’ ‘Muslim Female Teacher’ who is teaching me tajweed of the Qur’an. Then she tells me that I should make the recitation of Surat Maryam, Chapter 19 of the Qur’an, a habit. I can’t recall the exact reason she gave me for that. I had just completed Senior High School then. From then, I became very attached to this Surah especially the part that spoke about the mother of Prophet Issah, Maryam, alayhimas salaam.

The Maryam character amazed me. Even then, I tried to put myself in her shoes and I realized how tough the situation of her pregnancy without a male factor could have been. Yet, Allah azza wa jal took care of the situation with perfection for indeed, perfection belongs to Him only. 

Somewhere in Surat al-‘Imraan, we are told how the mother of Maryam, alayhas salaam had dedicated her to the service of Allah subhaanahu wa ta’aalaa whiles she was still in the womb. He, azza wa jal, says;

‘When the wife of 'Imraan said, "My Lord, indeed I have pledged to You what is in my womb, consecrated [for Your service], so accept this from me. Indeed, You are the Hearing, the Knowing.’

(Surat Al-‘Imraan, the Family of ‘Imraan, Chapter 3 ayah 35)

The Conversation with One of My Mentors

I am chatting with one of my mentors as usual on phone and she tells me that whiles unmarried, I should pray for the purity of the womb; that Allah azza wa jal cleanses my womb and places into it the best of His creations.

The truth is, I had always believed in praying for just about everything; things that have passed, present and future happenings. Praying for the right husband or wife at the right time and the ‘right’ children is part of these future happenings for every unmarried person.
What my mentor did to my mind however was that she re-awakened and rekindled the passion in me to pay a lot more attention to the ‘fruits of the womb.’ Whenever I see how some parents, especially the parents of the 21st Century children, struggle with their children, I get extremely worried. I keep imagining how much discomfort or do I say ‘hotness’ I would feel if ever I am tried with such a child or children.

Facts about Life

1.      You must know as a Muslim that Allah azza wa jal chooses to grant children to whomever He wills. Do not put yourself in the situation of one who thinks he or she must have a child by all means. Some give birth to a lot of children, some do not give  birth at all, some give birth to one, some give birth early and some late, and the examples abound. So, even as you pray for the ‘fruits of the womb’ and its ‘nature,’ you should also bear in mind these realities.

2.   You could work hard by being careful to choose a righteous spouse, pray hard for a religious child and then Allah azza wa jal in His infinite knowledge and wisdom decides to test you with exactly the opposite; ‘a notoriously rebellious’ child who only want to do that which you are totally against. That is definitely ‘hot’ to the eyes and heart but then we must know that after trying our best, this ‘heat’ then becomes our tests (most tests aren’t pleasant, we should know).

The Efforts We Make for a Righteous ‘Fruit’

So, we only make efforts whiles we fully ‘hope’ that Allah azza wa jal is going to crown our efforts with that which we desire of Him and ‘fearing’ also that He, subhaanahu wa ta’aalaa, could test us with the opposite of that which we desire. So in this matter of ours, we dangle between ‘fear’ and ‘hope’ of whatever Allah azza wa jal could decide to do with us with the full belief that whatever He does is good.

1.      Being Righteous Yourself 

The first thing you should do in your efforts to get a righteous fruit of the womb is to work at being righteous yourself. You strive to do that which Allah azza wa jal loves and stay clear off that which He despises as much as possible. Allah, jalla jalaaluhu, says;

‘Women impure are for men impure and men impure are for women impure; and women of purity are for men of purity and men of purity are for women of purity: these are not affected by what people say: for them there is forgiveness and a provision honourable.’

And this is only fair even though sometimes good women are tested with bad husbands such as the case of Asiya bint Muzahim, alayhas salaam and Fir’aun and good men are tested with bad wives such as the case of Prophet Nuhu and Prophet Lut, alayhimas salaam, and their wives. 

2.      Making Du’a

We all know the power of du’a. If you don’t, then you need to read about it and incline yourself to du’a. As it is said; ‘Du’a is the weapon of the believer.’ Whatever you need, want, fear, etc, tell it to Allah azza wa jal and He will definitely take care of it for you. He will take the difficulty out of your burden. To that I am a witness many times. Smile to Jannah!

3.      Choosing a Righteous Spouse

And we hope and pray that as we strive for righteousness, Allah azza wa jal will connect us with likewise people as the ayah stated above says;

‘Pure women are for pure men’

A righteous spouse complements ones effort in everything as married couples whether with or without children. There is therefore a problem when one of the couple has no interest in the pleasure of Allah. He or she then does not care what the child grows into. 

4.      Making Du’a during Pregnancy

And du’a runs through our whole life, married or not. Yet, we cannot afford to not make the du’a for the fruit of the womb specific. So, my mother will always make du’a for me, the man I marry and our children and that was exactly what my mentor taught me with passion to do as well. Every good mother does the same. We see in the story of the birth of Maryam alayhas salaam an example of a mother who was eager for a righteous child and a righteous generation as well. 

When she conceived Maryam alayhas salaam, as we read in ayah 35 of surat Al-‘Imraan, she dedicated her to the service of Allah azza wa jal even before she entered this Dunya. This is something that mothers, fathers, and yet to be mothers and fathers must learn to do. It is part of doing one’s part to ensure that the child grows up righteously, ceteris paribus (all things being equal).

5.      And Forever

The moment the child drops from the womb, the real work begins. The mother of Maryam alayhas salaam, seeing that her child was not male as she expected, she still made an extremely powerful du’a that we must all learn to do for our children, all children. Allah azza wa jal tells us in ayah 36 of Surat Al-‘Imraan that;

‘But when she delivered her, she said, "My Lord, I have delivered a female." And Allah was most knowing of what she delivered, "And the male is not like the female. And I have named her Mary, and I seek refuge for her in You and [for] her descendants from Satan, the expelled [from the mercy of Allah].’

Now, this du’a is definitely powerful. How lucky any child will be to have a mother such as Hannat, the mother of Maryam! May Allah azza wa jal make all of our mothers and yet to be mothers like this amazing woman. Aameen. Allah azza wa jal Who is the Hearer of every caller and the Answerer of all of our du’a tells us about His acceptance of her du’a in the next ayah, 37, saying;

‘So her Lord accepted her with good acceptance and caused her to grow in a good manner and put her in the care of Zechariah. Every time Zechariah entered upon her in the prayer chamber, he found with her provision. He said, "O Mary, from where is this [coming] to you?" She said, "It is from Allah. Indeed, Allah provides for whom He wills without account.’

And we all know the story of the purity, chastity and spirituality of Maryam alayhas salaam and Allah azza wa jal did bless her generation with a Prophet, Issah, alayhis salaam. Subhaanallaahi Robbil ‘Arshil ‘Azeem! Glorified is Allah, the Lord of the Mighty Throne! Alhamdulillaah for the blessing of Islam!

So du’a and the struggle to lead children unto the path of righteousness continues even after their birth until either we the parents leave this Dunya or the children leave.

The Reality I was Reminded

A man who is a da’ee (a caller unto the path of Allah) says and I quote in my words;
‘It is when you finally have a child that you begin to see the weight of responsibility as you fear for the manner in which your child will grow because the child could go either way no matter how hard you try.’

He gave a story of a man who was very learned and who taught them tafseer (commentary) of the Qur’an when they were young. The man had a notorious son who did just about everything that the man spoke against. He said that the man always looked so disturbed because of his son and whenever he remembers the man, he fears for himself and his children.

That is something we must keep pondering on and praying against because definitely, it would not be a pleasant test and though some people will not mind the outcome of the religiosity of their children, those who want to save themselves and their ‘children’ from the fire whose fuel is men and stones do care. May Allah azza wa jal change the situation of all those who are in such a case. Aameen. And with certainty, He is able to do that and more.

Another Reality that Hurts

So, we are discussing about the awesomeness of the sahaaba (the companions of rasuul), how they dedicated their every second to the work of Allah azza wa jal seeking His pleasure solely.

That was when the issue of parenting came in and one brother said he heard a scholar say, and I quote in my words;

‘What every woman of recent times must know is that she could give birth to a ‘waliy’ ‘friend’ of Allah or other great people both on the religious and secular front and she could also give birth to the worse of people but she could never give birth to a Prophet or men or women like the sahaaba.’

And indeed, this is a reality every woman, no matter how high she is aiming in the righteousness of her family should know, belief and understand. May Allah jalla jalaaluhu bless our wombs with the best of His creations and transform those of our children who have gone wayward back to the straight path. May Allah azza wa jal count us among the few of the latter years who will be among the Forerunners as He describes in Surat Al-Waqi’ah. Aameen.

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Friday, 31 October 2014

A RUBY OF OUR DEEN: If she does not motivate you, Allah knows best!



7th Muharram, 1436                                                Bismillaahir Rahmaanir Raheem

Assalaamu alaykum wa Rahmatullaahi wa Barkaatuhu brothers and sisters in Islam. Alhamdulillaah for the uncountable blessings. Alhamdulillaah for Islam. May He, azza wa jal, keep us on this gift, His guidance. Aameen. Remember to not forget me in your du’a. Tell Allah azza wa jal to make me simply ‘a beautiful soul’. The amazing thing is that; as you make du’a for me, the Angels do the same for you (smile for sadaqa). May Allah azza wa jal bless us with the gift of contentment and the zeal to strive in His way solely for His pleasure. Aameen.

So, I have an uncountable number of people who pull the ‘take advantage of now to worship Allah before later’ string in my heart and soul. Some of them I came across some years ago, when I didn’t even know what I was probably about exactly in this life and I keep discovering some more, alhamdulillaah.

Among them are men and women and of course these are straight from the Prophet Muhammad, suallallaahu alayhi wa sallam (who is more than enough as a motivator), his faithful male and female companions (super awesome heroes) and many others who are long dead. I call them; ‘the men and women of old who inspire me.’

These are men and women we must stop all else and read and learn about with vigour and all seriousness. So I started some updates on seerah especially of Umar ibn al-Khattab radiyallaahu anhu on facebook with the hashtag #LEARNSEERAHCAMPAIGN just to get some of us who aren’t into the seerah thing interested. Alhamdulillaah, I succeeded to a point (smile to Jannah). I guess you are going to start reading too in shaa Allah if you don’t do that already.

Among them are also the men and women of recent times who strived and are striving to walk in the path of ‘the men and women of old.’ Two of the women among this category are Sheikha Zeinab al-Ghazali and Sheikha Amina Assilmi.

These are also people that we must read about and learn from their struggles to keep the flames of their faith burning. Unfortunately, our youth, the Muslim youth especially, simply detests reading…yet did Allah azza wa jal not make ‘iqra’ ‘read’ ‘learn’ ‘recite’ ‘research’ ‘look for’ ‘find’ e.t.c. His first command to the noble one? Indeed, in this is a sign for the thoughtful.

So, I want to talk about Sheikha Amina Assilmi. She died in 2010 and we pray that Allah jalla jalaaluhu shower an abundance of His Rahma (Mercy), Magfira (Forgiveness) and Nuur (Light) upon her and all of those who have gone ahead of us. Aameen.

She gave an awesome answer to why she, as a Muslim woman, needs and has to dress in the Islamic cover which we mostly called the hijab, the barrier. It is her answer that I wanted to type verbatim and leave you to go and read about her (smile for sadaqa). But let me give you some facts about her to make you hungry enough to want to know more. Will I succeed? Well, let’s see! (Unfortunately, some people are simply unresponsive).

The Gist

Amina Assilmi was a Christian who didn’t play by the rules much and she was a feminist too. She got a scholarship to study in the University and she found that there were Arab Muslims in one of her class. She refused to sit in the same class with them because she had them labelled already:

‘Muslims were a bunch of terrorists and uncivilized beings.’

At least, that was what the media programmed her mind to believe in just like it still does a million more ignorant ones. May Allah azza wa jal grant us His guidance. Aameen. She tried to change her course but it didn’t work out so she had to make do with them in the class. She then decided to do something good for them at least, interesting huh! What good is that?

‘She wanted to preach Christ and all the Christianity thing to them so they could have their souls saved.’

And she did start. Well, that is one of the things I admire about some people in the other faiths, they are passionate about spreading the message and they do not fear to do so whenever granted the opportunity.

As she sweet-talked them into salvation, they posed as a challenge to her. She started to practise Christianity as it is preached in the Bible and not the popular ‘everyone-does-as-pleased’ type of Christianity. They challenged her about drinking alcohol, living a morally righteous life, dressing decently and she found out too late that she was changing from the free-living woman she used to be into a woman like the Bible wanted her to be. She was still Christian.

Soon, the truth finally settled calmly in her heart and being someone who has always believed in standing by the truth come what may, she decided to profess it against all odds. She took the shahada…

‘She bore witness that indeed there was absolutely nothing that any human being should dare worship but Allah, the Mighty and Majestic and she bore witness that Prophet Muhammad suallallaahu alayhi wa sallam was indeed his final Messenger and a Prophet.’

May Allah azza wa jal make us among the people whose belief in this never ever shirks for whatever reason and may we die on this beauty, this shahada. Aameen.

She decided that she will wear the long covering clothes but she wouldn’t cover her hair (smiles) but…

‘the parable of her kind of faith in the heart was like a glowing seed put in the best of soils and blessed with the best of conditions…it grows and glows.’

So, she started the total cover and with joy until she inspired a lot more to do the same. You must wait patiently to read the answer she gives to ‘why the hijab?’ in order to know what I am talking about.

The Trials Did Come…

Her whole family was non-Muslim and each one of them had the bad media image of Islam just like she used to have deeply imprinted on their beings. They would not have her, their blood, get lured into something like that ever so they tried their very best to take her Islam out of her heart…How could that be possible? Reminds me of how she described her Islamic feel in a lecture of hers I watched. She says;

‘I love Islam. Islam is absolutely my life. There is nothing in the world as important to me as Islam. And there is nothing in the world that I am not willing to give up for the sake of Allah, for Islam, for the Muslims. That is a fact! It’s an unquestionable fact! Because Islam is everything to me because I know the power of Islam. I know the power of Allah. I understand Allah’s love. I understand His wisdom. I understand His Mercy. I understand His justice and I know there is nothing that is better and I wish to share this with everyone and the first thing I had to learn was how to present Islam and how to live Islam.’

Subhaanallaahi Robbil ‘Arshil ‘Azeem! Indeed, she achieved this aim because she is an inspiration and a motivation to me at least. May Allah azza wa jal make us like her and better. Aameen. And indeed, we must not just read these things but also ponder on them and ask ourselves questions: do we feel this way too?

For a person with such a passion, we should know that Allah azza wa jal is her strength and no human could bring her faith down even for even an inch ever. And that was exactly what happened; none of them…those who wanted to kill her and those who wanted to give her a mind treatment, none of them succeeded.

Her husband divorced her. She had two children, a boy and a girl. She had been diagnosed of cancer and told that she would not live that long (and she did live long) and she cannot give birth again either. So, her children were her world. She found herself in a court and given thirty (30) minutes to choose between her two children and Islam. It is a wonder how a court could actually do something like that! The enmity for Islam is overwhelming! She says in an article;

‘During the divorce, there was a time when I was told I could make a choice. I could renounce this religion and leave with my children, or renounce my children and leave with my religion. I was in shock. To me, this was not a possible choice. If I renounce my Islam, I would be teaching my children how to be deceptive for there was no way to deny what was in my heart. I could not deny Allah, not then, not ever. I prayed like I had never prayed before. After the thirty minutes was up, I knew that there was no safer place for my children to be than in the hands of Allah. If I denied Him, there will be no way in the future to show to my children the wonders of being with Allah. The courts were told that I would leave my children in the hands of Allah. This was not a rejection of my children! I left the courts knowing that life without my children will be very difficult. My heart bled, even though I knew, inside, I had done the right thing. I found solace in Aayat-ul-Kursiyy.’

And indeed, whoever puts his or her trust in Allah azza wa jal, then indeed He is enough for the person.

Alhamdulillaah! Almost all of her family members became Muslim overtime. She lost them and her job but Allah azza wa jal, who is able to do all things that might seem impossible in our sights as humans, brought everything back to her in a much better package.

It started with her grandmother who died about a month after she had become Muslim. Then her father who hid his Islam from everyone only for them to find out when they were trying to let him know that her mother wanted to become Muslim now whether he liked it or not. Amazing, isn’t it? And then her former husband had become Muslim and living his life somewhere and her two children became Muslims. Alhamdulillaah!

Why Hijab? Super Answer

So, this amazing Ruby of Our Deen (smile to Jannah…so a khalil of mine addressed me like that and I prayed…Yaa Allah! Make me so. Aameen), gives a mind-blowing answer to why the hijab. She says;

‘And I had promised the young sisters that I would also go ahead and…because we are talking about how we can make an impact, the women, and one of the ways is you have to be able to explain Islam in a way that they would understand. Ok. So, one of the most important things they always ask about is the rug on our heads. Why do we wear that thing? Ok. And you know, I’m amazed, I ask Muslims why do your women cover their hair and may be one out of 99 gives the right answer. Now, if Muslims don’t know why women wear this scarf, how do we expect non-Muslims to understand? Seriously! The Qur’an itself says why we cover our hair. What does the Qur’an say?

To identify ourselves as being Muslim; that is number one. That we will be recognised. We put this on, this is an act of truthfulness, all right, so that everybody will know that we are Muslim women. We want everyone to know that we are Muslim women. We are proud of being Muslim women but then this says a lot too.

See, what this tells everyone who sees me is; what stands before you is a woman of enormous strength, enormous courage and integrity. This woman will not lie, she will not cheat, she will not deceive. She will be the best employer, the best employee, the best friend, the best adviser, the best counsellor. That is a Muslim woman. You can trust her. And it is a warning. Oh yah!  

It looks apparent and it tells to everybody; what stands before you is a woman who knows her worth. She knows her value. She is not a toy so don’t even try to play with her. This is a woman you take serious. See, my hijab lets people know straight up front that I want to be set apart from everyone else. I want you to know who I am and this is what you have a right to expect from me and this is what I will accept from you, therefore, when you come near me, leave your profanity somewhere else. I will not hear it. When you come to me, don’t tell me stories about someone else, I do not eat the flesh of my brother.

This identifies me as being a Muslim woman. Now, the ayah goes further, you know, when it says that; you will not be molested and some people have taken the word molested and turned it into ‘rape.’ It has nothing to do with rape. Actually, rape has nothing to do with sexual attraction. Rape is an act of violence and hate and domination. Old women, I mean, ancient old women, even older than me get raped. Ok! No matter what you wear, it doesn’t matter because it has nothing to do with sex. They are not turned on; they are filled with hate. That is where rape comes from. It has nothing to do with sex.

When He speaks of protection, the protection comes from your attitude. Ok! Because I know what Allah has said about me then I am going to have what I call; ‘the Islamic attitude.’ I’m not a toy. I’m truth. I’m honesty. You can trust me. Ok! I take my attitude and I let you know; ‘you don’t go pass this point with me.’ I don’t accept that. That is my attitude and that attitude, makes everyone notice so when I walk up to a shopping centre, ok, everyone rushes to open the door for me. I expect it; so they do it. If I get on a bus, they would get up and give me their seat. I expect it; so they do it. I walk into a room where they are telling a dirty story and they stop because they know I won’t tolerate it. So, I have the Islamic attitude that lets people know what to expect from me and at the same time, anyone who has trouble knows that they can come to me and talk to me about their problems and their problems will be safe. It will be secured and the guidance they get will be the best of guidance.

Therefore, I do counselling not only of Muslims but of non-Muslims because they trust me. They know they can trust me. See, these little things, they may sound like little things, but they really aren’t. But you see the difference in the way that I explain things to you and some people go…(makes a face)… you know, they think this is horrible but I don’t think it is horrible. I think it is closer to the truth than what has been…’’

So, this is just like…she has said it all. The challenge now is;

‘Do you as a Muslim woman understand your covering in such a manner?’

‘Do you don this blessed covering at all?’

‘Will you take it as a challenge to start donning it if you don’t do so already?’

‘If you do, will you try to live a life such as she describes above, that comes with this code of dressing?’

Alhamdulillaah thumma alhamdulillaah! I believe this is enough to set all of us thinking about how much of the purpose of our lives, which is solely worship, we are living. The standards have been set by millions. We only have to learn how to trek in those beautifully impressive footsteps as we pray for acceptance from Allah azza wa jal.

May Allah subhaanahu wa ta’aalaa forgive all of our wrongs, past, present and future. May He forgive our living and our dead. May He count us among His blessed and beloved slaves both in this Dunya and the Akhira and may He increase us in His consciousness, taqwa. Aameen.

Remember as I say always, and I mean it from the deepest core of my heart, I love you for the sake of Allah and I pray that Allah azza wa jal will love us even more. Aameen.

Jazaakumullaahu khair always!
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